Beyond Misconceptions: Why Second-Generation British Pakistanis Should Visit Pakistan?

Aug 23, 2023 Anam Hussain 1 Comment 425 Views Share on

The term “Back Home,” often used by British Pakistanis, frequently finds its way into conversations about Pakistan from afar. While it certainly carries feelings of nostalgia, belonging, and an unwavering connection to the ancestral homeland, it remains a phrase tinged with an air of unfamiliarity.

The story of the culturally-disconnected, second-generation British Pakistani is a surprisingly common one. We are blessed with two homelands—the countries of our parents and the UK. But, as time progresses, many among us feel an increasing detachment from our ancestral roots. The only fragile threads that connect us to our origins are cuisine, music, and birth names that are frequently mispronounced.

There are those of us who have never set foot in Pakistan or have only visited during our early childhood, and even then, our experiences were limited to the confines of the family circle. These limited encounters have led to the perception that Pakistan is defined by mud huts and a “backward” lifestyle, primarily influenced by the recollections shared by elders and their memories of village life. As a result, Pakistan remains an unfamiliar place—just a spot on the map often associated with the older generation’s narratives.

“I find Pakistan boring,” Shabana tells me during the lively celebration of Pakistan’s 76th Independence Day held in Birmingham. Curious, I ask about the duration of her visit. She responds, “I only went for 3 weeks. There’s nothing to do apart from eating and sleeping.”

How ironic indeed—attending an event connected to your roots and yet finding the very same country boring. It raises an interesting paradox of emotions and perspectives. While events like these in the UK are meant to foster a sense of connection and pride in one’s heritage, personal experiences and opinions can be complex and diverse.

Many second-generation British Pakistanis who do end up visiting Pakistan, often prompted by family, attend important life occasions like weddings or funerals. These trips usually involve staying in a single location, often a village, for no longer than 2–3 weeks. On these occasions, there is a unique opportunity to truly connect with the daily rhythms of life, granting a chance to witness the intricacies of relationships, the beauty of traditions, and the resilience of communities. Yet, such brief and isolated visits might not encompass the full spectrum of a country’s offerings. To fully appreciate the richness of a place, one must immerse oneself in its various dimensions, from exploring its historical sites to engaging with its people, traditions, and contemporary developments.

During another community gathering in Birmingham, I speak with Ali, a second-generation British Pakistani. Reflecting on his experiences, he expresses, “I realised we don’t really learn much about our Pakistani heritage or history. It’s like a missing piece, and it makes me want to know more. Even during Pakistani events, no one listens to historical talks.”

Ali’s perspective resonates with the observation that many second-generation British Pakistanis lack a comprehensive understanding of their roots and history, a gap influenced by multiple factors.

These include the following:

1. Media Representation: Media coverage often focuses on negative aspects, such as terrorism, political instability, or poverty, giving a biased view of the country and overshadowing its positive aspects.
2. Socio-economic Challenges: Issues like poverty, lack of access to quality education and healthcare, and economic disparities can contribute to the perception of backwardness.
3. Cultural Misunderstandings: Differences in cultural practices and traditions may be misunderstood or seen as regressive by outsiders, leading to biased perceptions.
4. Gender Inequality: Pakistan, like many countries, faces challenges related to gender equality, and these issues can be misconstrued as backwardness.
5. Political Instability: Periods of political unrest and governance challenges can be seen as indicative of backwardness.
6. Lack of Awareness: Limited exposure to Pakistan’s rich history, diverse culture, and progress in various sectors can lead to a lack of awareness and understanding of the country’s development.
7. Lack of Infrastructure: Inadequate infrastructure, particularly in rural areas, can contribute to the perception of underdevelopment.

However, these impressions fail to capture the diverse and dynamic reality of modern Pakistan, a nation that has progressed significantly in various spheres while preserving its rich cultural heritage.

It was these very misconceptions, amplified by the negative portrayal of Pakistan in Western media, that led me to create Capra Falconeri Traveller—a magazine with a clear purpose: to shed light on the authentic essence of Pakistan. Named after Pakistan’s national animal, the Markhor, this publication is dedicated to enlightening not only the British Pakistani community but also a global readership. Through its provision of up-to-date insights into adventures, cultures, accommodations, wildlife, and more, the magazine seeks to deconstruct preconceived notions and present a vibrant, accurate portrayal of the country.

Pakistan Today: A Snapshot

That certainly isn’t a full picture of Pakistan’s progress and development, rather, an outdated view. Things have changed. Over the years, Pakistan has undergone significant positive transformations in various sectors, presenting a more nuanced and accurate image of the nation. The country has experienced consistent economic growth, attracting investments and fostering entrepreneurship. It has become a hub for tech startups, and various industries, including textiles, agriculture and hospitality. Moreover, Pakistan has made significant strides in improving its education system, with an increased focus on access to quality education and literacy rates. The country is home to several renowned universities and educational institutions, such as LUMS – Lahore University of Management Sciences. The rise of the information technology sector has propelled Pakistan into the global digital landscape. Meanwhile, the vibrant and ambitious youth of Pakistan are actively contributing to the nation’s progress, engaging in social initiatives and advocating for positive change. Pakistan’s natural beauty, from scenic mountains to historical landmarks, has gained international attention, attracting tourists and adventure enthusiasts from around the world.

It is essential to acknowledge that every country faces challenges along its development journey, and Pakistan is no exception. However, it is equally important to recognise and celebrate the positive strides made by Pakistan in recent years. As perceptions evolve and a more comprehensive understanding of the country emerges, people will soon come to appreciate the diverse, dynamic, and rapidly developing nation that Pakistan truly is.

What Could Encourage Second-Generation British Pakistanis to Visit Pakistan at Least Once in Their Lifetime?

As we analyse the demographic landscape of the youth and second-generation population in the UK, taking into account their diverse range of interests, behaviours, hobbies, and preferred digital platforms and devices, we are able to establish meaningful connections that can link them to the exceptional experiences Pakistan has to offer.

1. Technology and Gadgets

Like many young adults, second-generation British Pakistanis are likely to be interested in the latest technological advancements, gadgets, and digital trends. Pakistan’s largest tech event: “Future Fest,” an expo that takes place every year, showcasing cutting-edge Pakistani technological advancements, innovations, and startups, could provide a unique and exciting platform for bridging the gap between their British upbringing and their Pakistani heritage, while also fostering a sense of pride in Pakistan’s technological progress. The expo features displays of homegrown tech products, apps, software, and hardware innovations, as well as interactive workshops, presentations from successful tech entrepreneurs, and opportunities for networking with like-minded individuals.

2. Music and Entertainment

For music and entertainment enthusiasts, a plethora of lively cultural and musical festivals unfold throughout the year in the prominent cities of Pakistan. Many from this generation have developed a fondness for Coke Studio songs such as “Pasoori,” which beautifully blends traditional Pakistani melodies with contemporary arrangements. Experiencing these beloved songs performed live would not only be a source of enjoyment but also a way to connect with their cultural roots in a meaningful and memorable way.

3. Education and Learning

For those with a strong appetite for academic enrichment, immersive workshops await, offering the opportunity to delve into in-depth learning experiences and acquire new skills. For example, language classes or conversational sessions can help them improve their Urdu language skills and better connect with locals. Guided tours to historical sites, museums, and landmarks across Pakistan, can offer insights into the country’s rich history and diverse heritage. Moreover, they can witness the vibrant cultural traditions of Pakistan through traditional dance and theatre performances.

4. Cuisine and Cooking

Food is a powerful cultural connector that can evoke emotions, memories, and a sense of identity. Food festivals and events that showcase Pakistani cuisine, such as the Food Expo in Lahore, can serve as captivating gateways for second-generation British Pakistanis to reconnect with their cultural heritage, embark on a sensory journey through the flavours of their ancestors, and create lasting memories that bridge the gap between their British upbringing and their Pakistani roots.

5. Arts & Creativity

Pakistan hosts a range of art and literature festivals and exhibitions that showcase both traditional and contemporary works. Attending these events will allow them to witness the dynamic evolution of Pakistani art and engage with local and international artists.

6. Environment and Sustainability

From stunning landscapes to eco-tourism opportunities, visiting Pakistan is a chance for them to connect with nature responsibly. They can engage in conservation projects, explore glacial and coastal areas, and learn about local cultures intertwined with the environment. Participating in green initiatives and gaining insights into biodiversity can add to the experience.

7. Fashion and Style

From vibrant bazaars to high-end boutiques, a diverse range of clothing, accessories, and designs mirror the country’s rich cultural tapestry. Second-generation British Pakistanis can witness fashion shows that bridge heritage and innovation, and even interact with local artisans.

8. British History

Visiting Pakistan would not only be an opportunity for second-generation British Pakistanis to connect with their ancestral heritage but also a chance to explore the intricate ties that exist between British culture and history. As a land with a significant historical connection to Britain, Pakistan’s past is intertwined with the British colonial era, and exploring this shared history can offer a deeper understanding of cultural dynamics and societal influences. They can explore the colonial remnants, from architectural landmarks such as the Lahore Fort and Frere Hall to the universities and institutions that were established during that era.

9. Rediscovering Ancestral Roots and Strengthening Family Bonds

Visiting the ancestral homes of their parents or grandparents can provide a tangible connection to their own family history. Through conversations with older generations and exploring family roots, they can build a bridge between their British upbringing and the rich cultural heritage passed down through generations. This is an opportunity to strengthen family bonds and forge meaningful connections with relatives they may have never met or only interacted with from afar.

10. Philanthropic Opportunities

By engaging in volunteer activities or supporting local initiatives, second-generation British Pakistanis can play an active role in addressing social challenges and contributing to the country’s development. Giving back to the community through charity work is meaningful to many. Such experiences foster a sense of social responsibility and empathy, driving them to be change-makers in their own communities.

11. Sports

Sports, especially the electrifying world of cricket, can serve as a magnetic force, drawing second-generation British Pakistanis to their ancestral land. The iconic Gaddafi Stadium in Lahore is a haven where cricket history is etched into the very grounds. The allure intensifies during Pakistan Super League (PSL) matches, a spectacle that sees stadiums across major cities transform into a cauldron of energy and excitement. The sight of players battling it out on the pitch while fans erupt in cheers fosters a bond that transcends geographical boundaries. Beyond the stadium’s gates, Pakistan’s vibrant sports landscape, ranging from traditional games to contemporary athletic events, all invite exploration and engagement. Amidst the roar of the crowd, second-generation British Pakistanis can find themselves not just as spectators, but as active participants in a narrative that pulsates with unity and pride. Through the lens of sports, a visit to Pakistan can become a fervent homecoming, an immersion into a heritage that celebrates both legacy and excitement.

12. Travel and Exploration

Lastly, travel holds the potential to be an irresistible attraction for second-generation British Pakistanis. The prospect of discovering Instagram-worthy cafes such as Emen in Islamabad, or indulging in luxury riverside retreats like Khoj in Shigar, certainly appeals to their penchant for modern comforts. The enchanting call of the majestic northern mountains has the power to tug at their spirit of adventure, providing them with a chance to fully immerse themselves in the tranquillity of nature’s exquisite beauty. But it doesn’t stop there – history can spring to life through visits to ancient sites and traditional locales, forging a tangible bridge to the past. But, this journey is about more than geographic locations; it’s about crafting connections across generations and curating memories that mirror their distinct path of self-discovery and profound cultural bonds.

In an age of global connectivity, valuing our roots and heritage becomes increasingly crucial. Our roots not only provide us with a sense of identity but also serve as a bridge to our history and a cornerstone for our future. Embracing and appreciating both our own cultural heritage and that of others enriches our worldview and fosters a broader understanding of the world.

Embarking on a journey to Pakistan offers an all-encompassing experience that artfully weaves together the shared history and cultural essence of both Britain and Pakistan. This journey stands as a unique opportunity, which can empower second-generation British Pakistanis to embrace their dual identity while gaining profound insights into the cultural influences that have not only shaped their own community in the UK but also contributed to the larger societal mosaic. Over the past few years, there has been a noticeable shift—a strong urge to rediscover our roots by embracing traditional food, exploring our history, and valuing our language. Yet, for those who can’t or don’t want to travel back to Pakistan, finding a piece of home in the UK becomes important.

Cover image courtesy: ASphotofamily on Freepik, Ifrah Akhter, Pixaby, Khoj Resort.